9 Things NOT To Say To Someone Who Recently Had Their Heart Broken

Just give her flowers and a hug, TBH.

#1. He's a d*ck. 

She'll probably agree with you in a few days/weeks/months but for now she still loves him and it hurts to hear that.

#2. There's a plan for you. 

So this plan includes pain and torture? She'd rather make her own plans, thanks—involving tequila and pizza.

#3. At least...

Nothing that comes after this phrase is going to help her. Her heart is broken. Her world is shattered. There is no 'at least'.

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 #4. I never liked him anyway. 

Just. Don't.

#5. There are plenty fish in the sea.

BUT THAT ONE WAS HER FISH. SHE DOESN'T WANT ANOTHER FISH.

#6. Do you think he's gay? 

It's very sweet that you think the only logical explanation for someone rejecting her is if he fails all females, but no.

#7. He didn't deserve you. 

Her head knows this, but her heart is so not there yet. Her heart wanted him and he rejected her.

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#8. You weren't dating for that long, why are you so upset?

Sorry if her feelings don't fit into your official time frame on things.

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#9. He'll realise his mistake and come back. 

Secretly, she's hoping for this; please don't encourage her.

However...

Here are the 3 things you SHOULD say: 

1. I'm so sorry, it must suck. 

2. Here, eat this pizza.

3. Here, drink this tequila.

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