What Your Mom's Sign Says About Your Relationship

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21 March, 2018
What Your Mom's Sign Says About Your Relationship

If your Mom is a FIRE SIGN (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)

Passionate, creative, and eternally youthful, the fire sign mom is always on the move. These superwomen want to have it all: amazing kids, a lively home, and of course, their own ambitions. If your mom is a fire sign, she probably earned at least one degree (maybe more) while you were in diapers or braces. She'll be your role model when it comes to pursuing your dreams. Although she can be affectionate, she won't be the cuddly, super attentive mom. She's a bit too restless for that. But count on her to take you on plenty of field trips. She'll enjoy a rock concert, bouncy castle, or roller rink as much as the kids. Independence is a quality she holds dear and she'll raise her kids to stand on their own two feet—even encouraging them to start businesses or study abroad while in high school. These moms are leaders too, so don't be surprised if they wind up as PTA president, Brownie troop leader, or in some other guiding role for you and your friends. The downside of a fire sign mom is that her busy life can leave kids feeling like they aren't her main priority. Also, her restless, renegade spirit might never quite provide the solid ground her offspring need to relax and feel secure.

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...and you are a fire sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):

Life is a fantastic voyage of discovery for you and your fire sign mom. Traveling together, going on weekend road trips and field trips—she not only understands your adventurous spirit, she encourages it. Just tell her what your dreams are: She'll help you start your own YouTube channel or sign you up for sessions with a private teacher. You'll appreciate that she has a full life because it gives you space to be independent. But this can be annoying during the times that she's traveling, preparing for a big speech, or playing community leader and you need someone to bandage your scraped knee or take you to the doctor. You may have to find the caretaking, stable bring of motherhood from another woman in your life (hello, Grandma!) and appreciate your fire sign mom for inspiring you to legit do you.

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...and you are an Earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn):

Tone it down, mom! As an earth sign, you're all about "appropriateness" and the fire sign mom doesn't care about that. While your friends and teachers may all admire her joie de vivre it could feel embarrassing or irritating to you, especially when she blurts out one of her classically inappropriate remarks. At the same time, you'll admire and share her ambition. While you can be process-driven, she shoots from the hip, which can help you move past any internal perfectionism that holds you back. Plus she'll always be ready with words of inspiration and advice, helping to tow you out of any ditches you fall into and lighten up about life.

...and you are an air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):

There's endless fun to be had in this mother-kid combo. Both of you are seekers and adventurers who are curious about life and all its offerings. You'll love tagging along with your fire sign mom and since you're both super social, you'll be happy by how encouraging she is of your friendships and extracurricular activities. Getting into any sort of routine can be hard here though and she may fail to teach you a few core rituals like, say, getting sufficient sleep or brushing your teeth every night. She'll be your BFF and confidante though and you'll enjoy growing together through your entire lives.

...and you are a water sign (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):

Can you say, role reversal? The playful, freewheeling fire sign mom can meet resistance from the sensitive, security-minded water sign kid. She wants to gallivant about town, you want to stay home and have her bake some goddamn cookies for you. But she barely has a moment free for such things. With your keen intuition and understanding of emotions you can see where she keeps hitting the same wall. You may wind up counseling her on better ways to handle her feelings, especially anger and frustration. But don't pooh-pooh her gifts. She's a risk-taker and you can learn a lot from that, especially since you tend to hold back and worry more often than you should.

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If your Mom is an EARTH sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)

Dependable, responsible earth sign moms take this job very seriously. They want the best for their kids from private school educations to a calm, safe home in which to relax (and of course, do their homework). They are especially concerned with ethics and will make sure their kids understand good manners and appreciate the value of things like money and hard work. They'll go out of their way to understand what's healthiest for their children like a no-sugar diet, restricted iPad time, and lots of outdoor exercise. At times they can be strict, but they also understand that kids need boundaries in order to feel safe. Family and tradition are important to them so holiday seasons can be full-on with all the classic foods, decorations, and annual rituals. At times they can be a little too concerned about outward appearances, which can cramp a wild child's style. But ultimately, they take delight in guiding their kids towards a rich, successful adulthood with their kitchen table wisdom and their own dedication to stability and success.

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...and you are a fire sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):

Help... air! The earth sign mom like rules and regulations while the fire sign kid feels totally fenced in by them. Her insistence on doing things by the books seems, well, ridiculous. You know that rules were meant to be revised and updated to roll with the times. Although you'll later appreciate the stability she provided for you, it's just not your speed. But here's where you could really learn: The earth sign mom may be materialistic but she doesn't burn through resources (a fire sign pitfall). Stability and sufficiency are not qualities to sneeze at, even if they are easy to take for granted.

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...and you are an Earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn):

Hang the family crest! Nothing says, "tradition, tradition!" like the earth sign mother and child. From Sunday night pot roasts to soccer games to holidays with all the trimmings, you're totally simpatico on such things. There's a serene stability between you but this can also be a mixed bag. It's hard for other people to penetrate such a strong family vibe and that can become a little insular. Plus, you may need some outside interference in order to break out of old habits and patterns that are in need of an updated perspective. Ultimately, the abiding sense of safety, material security, and respect that you share is a good thing as long as it doesn't hold you back from life's necessary risks.

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...and you are an air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):

You're a migratory free bird, she's the flamekeeper of the nest—and that puts you a bit at odds. As much as you appreciate her caring consistency, it may feel as if the earth sign mom is clipping your wings. Or maybe that she doesn't understand that you're a peacock that fans its ornate feathers instead of flapping like a neutral-colored sparrow. Trying to make her understand the "eccentric" parts of your personality can be an exercise in futility. She'll only get it to the extent that she allows herself to color outside the lines, which isn't much usually. But being unique isn't her core value; security and tradition are. Be thankful when you invariably hit her up for a loaner or a crash pad in between your wild flights of fancy.

...and you are a water sign (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):

Sweet stability! The earth sign mother is your rock and best friend—and she'll love the way you lean on her. When your emotions flare up, she can talk you down from the tree. Sometimes, however, you'll wish she wasn't so damn logical. But what she lacks in empathy, she makes up for in her problem-solving abilities and that is something you'll happily depend on. Make sure to develop your own internal compass and coping skills though so it's not always like, "Gotta call mom!" the minute the shit hits the fan.

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If your mom is an AIR SIGN (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)

Wait...who's the mom and who's the kid? Playful, mercurial air sign women are the fun moms of the zodiac who can spew the slang and keep up with all the coolest music and happenings. Even if she wasn't on the pulse, she would happily listen, learn, and never judge you for trying new things. No doubt, as a teenager, your friends dropped by to visit both you and her. And she probably regaled with tales from her own halcyon days while creating a non-judgmental space for your pals to talk about their problems. Fashion-forward, you could even share a wardrobe with your air sign mama: she could break a trend before its Snapchat or Instagram debut. Vanguard ideas, cultural edification and self-exploration is what this mother values. These moms also value intellectual exchanges and a broad education. In addition to handing you books and signing you up for ballet, ceramics, and kids' yoga, she might have dragged you along to communication workshops, museum exhibitions, bluegrass festivals, and more—something you will greatly appreciate later in life. Social butterflies, you may fight to get a word in edgewise as she's chatting with her 1,001 friends, and that can feel frustrating for a kid. If you want her full attention, meet somewhere private and insist on a "no cell phones" block of time so you aren't distracted by her bleeping, blinging (and probably bedazzled) device.

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...and you are a fire sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):

Let the good times roll! The air sign mom is the wind beneath your wings, always bringing fresh ideas, adventure, and out-of-the-box inspiration to share. In many ways, she feels younger than you. She's on a constant voyage of discovery but tends to change course more quickly than you. As a result, you may feel more adult in this parent-child configuration, and that can dull your own adventurous spirit. But she'll also be your BFF, the person with whom you can share anything. Even if she's off to her next social engagement before your problems have been solved, at least she'll have left you with great advice so you can get yourself back on track.

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...and you are an Earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn):

How...did this even happen? Your air sign mother will be an enigma to you. Her gypsy soul and ability to make friends with any stranger (but periodically blow off the people she has known for years, like, say, her own mom) confounds you. For you, family loyalty is everything. She considers her BFFs her fam and her bloodline in the same category. There can be a strangely competitive dynamic here as if your mother is always occupying the space of the trendsetting cool girl while you're left playing the heavy. Comparing yourself to her is futile but she can show you to lighten up while you can remind her that breezing around and making upbeat small talk does not a legit connection make. You'll definitely be teachers for each other, even if the lessons are hard to take in at times.

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...and you are an air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):

Like a cool, refreshing breeze, everything can be so chill in this mother-kid combo. Neither one of you likes to make a huge fuss out of anything. You'd rather explore the metaphysical meaning, pick it apart intellectually, or turn it into a viral meme that makes everyone die laughing. Talking and talking...about new ideas or just about the latest season of Game Of Thrones, is something you both love to do. You're both social and people-oriented—expect a full house and a rotating cast of guests to pop by. If you have tons in common, you'll end up being BFFs. If not, you'll be like two ships passing in the night, and years could pass before you even visit home. Nevertheless, you'll both understand the other's journeying instincts and need to follow life's compass instead of a pre-ordained script.

...and you are a water sign (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):

Chin up, shoulders back. The air sign mom might be sympathetic to your sorrows but she is not going to plummet into any emotional black hole with you. Where you brood, she wants to breeze on and get over it already! This can be a good thing in some ways as her jokes and playful ideas can shore you out of your moody spells. But sometimes, you just want to...sulk! That's fine. But forget about manipulating her with tears or running to her for a hug when you've done something self-destructive for the fifteenth time. She'll be armed with advice (she's read all the books, lived in the ashram, studies at the master teacher's feet) and won't hold back from delivering it. You're fundamentally different creatures, but this will tickle her in many ways, especially when you let your creative side out to play.

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If your Mom is a WATER SIGN (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)

Hello, Mother Superior. The nurturing, caretaking water sign mom is everything our culture holds up as classic maternal traits. This mom is uber-tuned-in to her kids' needs, sensing their hurt feelings—and rushing in with a piece of chocolate—before the first tear rolls down a cheek. She can be a hands-on mom who creates a cozy hearth and home. A born culture-vulture, she'll expose her kids to amazing music, art, and literature too. Her innate understanding of emotions makes her empathetic to every stage of life. She understands that teens will be teens and tries to create a safe harbor for that turbulent time. She herself can be quite the emotional creature and this may create instability at times. Compartmentalizing is not her forte and if she's going through a tough moment, she might check out or have moods so palpable her kids start worrying about her. Or, she can take things, like say, you not calling daily, a little too personally. But if you keep the communication open and share from the heart, there's no greater champion than the water sign mom. She just wants to be involved and stand by you through your milestone moments like falling in love for the first time, healing from heartbreaks, getting engaged, having babies—all the things she holds dear.

...and you are a fire sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):

Where you're a free spirit, your water sign mom is fixated on what might go wrong. At times this creates a perfect balance—she'll save you from some painful mistakes with her intuition. But you may also feel smothered at times, especially when you want to find your own wings and she keeps grabbing you before you fall out of the nest. Also, your intrepid traveling could clash with her domestic nature. Make sure you call and visit a little more often if you want to keep the peace. She's not trying to control you. She just wants to connect.

...and you are an Earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn):

This heavenly mom-kid matchup couldn't be better. You're a bit of a perfectionist who can be discouraged at the first sign of disapproval. But the water sign mom tends to think the sun rises and sets on her kids—and this creates a safe space for you to make "mistakes" and learn from them. You both love tradition, family, and cozy time at home. At times her moods can be aggravating for you because you'd prefer to just focus on achievement. But she'll bring an important reminder to slow down and think about the impact you have on others—especially when your desire to win flares up and makes you a little too competitive.

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...and you are an air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):

Your water sign mom is definitely convenient. She'll hold down the fort and have a hot meal waiting for you as you bounce from one social activity to another. But it's also a little too easy to take her kindness for granted. Make sure to acknowledge her more often and recognize when she's trying to connect to you by doing nice little things (even if you find them a little irritating). You'd rather being "doing" than talking about feelings, but don't overlook your water sign mom's greatest gift: her emotional intelligence. Open up to her, let her support you, and you'll both reap rewards.

...and you are a water sign (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):

Cookies for breakfast: Well, why not? Everything's so cozy between you that there's almost no point in ever leaving home. On a good day, you'll flow together in perfect emotional syncopation, providing a symbiotic sense of comfort for one another. Quietly creating, listening to music, watching TV under a hand-crocheted Afghan: can you say bliss bubble? Trouble strikes when one of you gets into a mood or needs space but is afraid of hurting the other one by taking it. You're both ultra sensitive so it's important to take cool-down breaks and remember that having your own life doesn't spell abandonment.

Credit: Cosmopolitan
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