5 Seductive Sex Positions That Use All 5 Senses

Have him sit cross-legged, leaning back on his hands. You kneel on top, facing him. Eye contact is key here because you're gonna be communicating only through eye contact and sounds. Whisper into his ear and tell him exactly what you're going to do to him, sigh deeply during a slow, lingering kiss, and look him in the eye as you slide onto him so he can see exactly how he feels in you. There are few things hotter than the sound of a lover moaning your name or begging for more of you. And for men, moans and sounds have an even more visceral, primitive effect on their lust. If you're not a natural moaner, why not give it a try? In about 30 seconds, you'll realize it makes everything feel way more sexy, personal, and hot.

Get your sweet selves in a very dark room, pop a couple of blindfolds on, or just make a little fuck tent under your covers. Lie on your side with your bottom leg stretched straight and the top draped over him as he faces you. The point here is to make it dark enough so you can focus on the scent and feel and taste of each other. In the dark, move slowly against each other, appreciating the feel of his chest against your breasts, his leg wrapped around you, and your mouth on his. Even though eye contact is generally what fosters this kind of super-intimate sex, in this case, not having it makes you focus more deeply on each other.

Put him flat on his back and lie on top of him, keeping your bodies pressed closely and legs entwined. We may think we're just kissing some dude, but our brains are actually assessing his scent for clues on his health, genetic compatibility, and general suitability as a mate. Scent also incites lust; subconsciously, we smell arousal. Let yourselves be pulled by these biological forces by taking a tour of each other's bodies, noticing the different subtle scents. Brush your nose near his armpit, smell his neck just under his ear, rub your cheek in his pubes and get his scent on you. Have him lick between your legs then kiss him so you can taste yourself on his lips. Be the animals you actually are and see what you can figure out.

Yes, you may have heard of Cosmo's food/sex combos before. And damn, that shit really works. Lie on your back and drizzle some honey between your legs — hey, it's body-safe, after all. (Put a towel or something down first.) You will seriously feel like you're overflowing with womanhood and general sexiness. Invite him to lick you off. Place little dollops of honey wherever you'd like his mouth — plus, you there with a little drop of honey on each of your nipples? Completely hot visual.

Since sex is so visual, one of the best ways to shake things up is to remove sight entirely. First, one of you gets to (or has to, as the case may be) lie face down flat on the mattress (starting facedown helps them feel less vulnerable). Then other teases with ... whatever you've got handy. Experiment with different temperatures, textures, and pleasure/pain ratios. Try brushing a feather duster between their thighs, let an ice cube melt in the small of the back, give them a light smack on the bum with a spatula (wash the hell out of it after.) Once they're ready, flip them over and tease them more, adding mouth and hands into the mix. If you're feeling dom-ish, make them beg before you'll let them have an orgasm. Switch roles next time.