Guys & Girls Reveal How To Blow His Mind In Bed

Truly spectacular sex skills, and the widest mix of stuff, come from a variety of sources. Add some of these to your erotic arsenal, and then watch his sheets smoulder.




Truly spectacular sex skills, and the widest mix of stuff, come from a variety of sources. To bring you the absolute cream of the crop, we grilled guys for the unique techniques that left them speechless and spent, convinced chicks to reveal their best send-him-to-the-moon secrets, and asked pros for their never-fail standbys. Add some of these to your erotic arsenal, and then watch his sheets smoulder.


1. "This one girl put sex on pause when we changed positions by crawling to a new spot and touching herself in the sexiest possible way, for a minute. It created build-up and gave me a hot view."

- Tim, 27

2. "I had absolutely no idea that there were so many nerves in my spine until a woman licked me so sensually from my neck down to my tailbone. It felt taboo when her tongue ventured close to my butt."

- Daniel, 30

3. "This one time my girlfriend and I grabbed each other's nipples during sex and squeezed them in sync with every thrust. The mix of pain and pleasure took me completely over the top."

- Ronaldo, 24

4. "I melt when a girl screams out a foreign phrase in bed. I think every guy has an exotic fantasy, and it was as if mine was about to come true! I was with this hot woman and while doing it, she used to yell Mucho gusto after every thrust! I loved it. Turns out, it means 'nice to meet you."

- Gordon, 32

5. "My girl changes her look when we have sex, like by keeping her jewellery on or wearing her hair differently. It gets me super excited because it's almost like I'm making love to a new side of her every time."

- Vin, 27

6. "My girlfriend showed up at my doorstep in this trashy (hot) outfit and introduced herself as my girlfriend's naughty pretend twin sister, Candy. She pushed me against the wall, we had mad sex, and then she left without saying anything. The next day, she acted like nothing happened."

- JR, 27

7. "One night, my girl massaged her boobs with lotion and then rubbed them all over my body. Need I say anymore?"

- Ben, 26

8. "I had a girl take a sip of champagne and then pop a mint into her mouth before going down on me. The bubbles dissolved the mint faster and made it so tingly that I almost exploded!"

- Eric, 25

9. "My ex had me lie on the bed, gave me a rubdown, and then unexpectedly pulled a scarf out of her drawer and tied my hands behind my back. The juxtaposition of her pampering me and then suddenly becoming aggressive was wild."

- Scott, 30

10. "In the middle of giving me oral, this woman I was dating grabbed my penis and playfully ran it over her neck, breasts, thighs, and butt before returning to tongue action."

- Artie,

11. "My woman emailed me erotic website links throughout the day. The first was for lingerie she had bought online; then I got a sex-toy link, followed by a site describing a position I figured she wanted to try. It was like eight hours of foreplay!"

-Shawn, 26

12. "If a girl fondles her breasts, it turns average sex into awesome sex. If she licks them or flicks her tongue toward her nipples, it becomes out of this world."

- Darin, 23

13. "While in missionary, this chick grabbed my butt, pulled me in, and told me not to resume pumping until she climaxed. Then she began stroking her clitoris. The agony of watching her masturbate while I was inside her nearly killed me, but as soon as she finished, I had the most powerful orgasm ever."

- Andy, 24

14. "My girlfriend and I take turns whispering simple, sexy commands, like 'Kiss my left thigh' or 'Bite my lower lip."

- Kyle, 26

15. "This one girl wouldn't let me manually guide my shaft into her, so I had to navigate without using my hands."

- Marshall, 23

16. "One chick draped silk panties over the tip of my penis, held one end in each hand, and then moved her hands back and forth, rubbing the head like she was polishing an apple."

- Kenny, 24

17. "When a girl gasps as I slip inside her, it's like she's been aching for me all day."

- Chad, 30

18. "While giving me oral, my girlfriend simultaneously stimulated herself with a vibrator and then pressed it against the base of my penis just as I climaxed."

- Scott, 26

19. "I can tell what my lady's craving during sex by the way she handles my ass. She grips tighter for deeper penetration and gently rubs to slow things down."

- Ryan, 21

20. "My woman made an audio recording of the sounds she made while pleasuring herself and then downloaded the track onto my MP3 player."

- Darren, 27

21. "When my girlfriend found a tear in her sheet, she pulled my penis through the hole, and we had sex with the material separating us. The fact that the only parts of our bodies that touched were our naughty bits made it feel forbidden."

- Samuel, 27

22. "If a girl pins down my arms with her hands while she rides me, I feel like a rock star. It's like she needs 100 percent of my penis, and all of my attention, with no interruptions allowed."

- Nelson, 27

23. "I had a girl instruct me to stay inside her as we transitioned from missionary to her on top. We ended up discovering new positions along the way!"

- David, 26

24. "My girlfriend wore a ripped tank top and fishnets to bed, then demanded I tear them off like I was opening a present."

- Chuck, 23

25. "A chick I dated slipped my member through her panties so it was pinned between her underwear and her groin. Then she straddled me and moved forward and backward."

- Brian, 24

26. "One girl took advantage of my morning wood by climbing on top of me when I was asleep."

- Joe, 23

27. "This girl wrapped her lips around one of my nipples and began breathing. As she inhaled, the suction pulled my nipple and blasted it with heat. As she exhaled, the cool air pushed it down. It's one of my favourite foreplay tricks. For me and for her!"

- Derek, 24


28. "While doing it in the missionary position, raise your legs straight up toward the ceiling, and close them together. Even better, use the heels of your feet to nudge his butt. In fact, you could guide him by changing the speed and strength of your thrusts. The angle lets him go deeper and makes you feel tighter. Also, don't feel shy to spank him once in a while!"

- Tina, 30

29. "Lean a full-length mirror against the corner of the bed while you go down on him so he can view you from back and front."

- Lia, 28

30. "Ask him to remove your panties using his mouth."

- Jen, 27

31. "Some guys are breast-obsessed, but they love butts too. So do it doggie-style more. Or straddle him with your back facing him and then bend forward, that's it, he's in heaven!"

- Nicole, 26

32. "Lick him wherever he bends- the nape of his neck, behind his knees, on his waist. The skin there is extrathin and sensitive."

- Ingrid, 31

32. "Wear a skirt with no underwear. Tell him that, at some point, you're going to bend over and expect him to take you."

- Margie, 27

33. "Try this only if you're on the floor: When he's on top, wrap your arms around each other, and rock from side to side. The blood rush he'll get will amp up his orgasm."

- Sue, 27

34. "Place your hands on either side of his penis, and rub in a circular motion-like you're trying to roll a ball out of clay-as you move them up and down his shaft. Apply pressure through your palms and finger tips."

- Kit, 26

35. "Knead the area between his testicles and back door with a warming massage oil. The heat boosts blood flow to the area and thus adds to his excitement."

- Elle, 26