5 Anal Sex Positions You've Probably NEVER Tried Before

Bottoms up. Or down. Or on top.

21 March, 2018
5 Anal Sex Positions You've Probably NEVER Tried Before

Bottoms up. Or down. Or on top.

The Beginner's Bend

Get in a spooning position but curl up into more of a ball. The whole loving/protected feeling of inner spoondom will help you relax, plus if you need further comfort, you are conveniently already in the fetal position. Have him talk you through it, go slowly and all that, but what's actually going to make this work for you is the buzzy vibrator you're gonna put between your legs. If the vibrator does its job — and it will — you will realize anal is not something you "should try once" but can actually feel pretty incredible.

1The Beginner's Bend

Get in a spooning position but curl up into more of a ball. The whole loving/protected feeling of inner spoondom will help you relax, plus if you need further comfort, you are conveniently already in the fetal position. Have him talk you through it, go slowly and all that, but what's actually going to make this work for you is the buzzy vibrator you're gonna put between your legs. If the vibrator does its job — and it will — you will realize anal is not something you "should try once" but can actually feel pretty incredible.

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Bottoms Up

Lie on your stomach, putting a pillow under your pelvis for comfort and easier access. Have him rub your back, your legs, and your bum until you're feeling fine. If he starts with a drizzle of lube down your crack and some gently probing and well-lubed fingers, it will help you feel 87 percent more enthusiastic about him going all in. And by all means, slip a hand or vibrator between your legs to give yourself the kind of stimulation you (and pretty much every other woman on the planet) probably need to come. The more of us who 'fess up to this basic biological fact, the better it will be for all of us.

2Bottoms Up

Lie on your stomach, putting a pillow under your pelvis for comfort and easier access. Have him rub your back, your legs, and your bum until you're feeling fine. If he starts with a drizzle of lube down your crack and some gently probing and well-lubed fingers, it will help you feel 87 percent more enthusiastic about him going all in. And by all means, slip a hand or vibrator between your legs to give yourself the kind of stimulation you (and pretty much every other woman on the planet) probably need to come. The more of us who 'fess up to this basic biological fact, the better it will be for all of us.

The Standing Slow Slide

Anal is not the kind of sex that makes for a good quickie (oh, hell no), but you can give it that kind of must-have-you-now passion with a standing pose. Push a chair against a wall and put a leg on the seat (or arm, depending on height). Brace yourself on the wall and have him enter from behind, thrusting slowly in and up. Toss your head back, arch your back and feel all romance novel-y — or as romance novel-y as one can feel mid-anal.

3The Standing Slow Slide

Anal is not the kind of sex that makes for a good quickie (oh, hell no), but you can give it that kind of must-have-you-now passion with a standing pose. Push a chair against a wall and put a leg on the seat (or arm, depending on height). Brace yourself on the wall and have him enter from behind, thrusting slowly in and up. Toss your head back, arch your back and feel all romance novel-y — or as romance novel-y as one can feel mid-anal.

The Erotic Examination

Try some role-play to get the butt sex happening. Get onto a sturdy table (a bed works too) and lie on your back, bending your knees and grasping onto your ankles (if you do yoga, it's Happy Baby Pose). This open, vulnerable position lends itself to all kinds of scenarios: Spa visit with a masseuse who turns you on so much you beg for a happy ending? Alien abduction with requisite anal probe? Don't worry if your idea seems crazy or weird — it's fantasy, that's kind of the point. P.S. It works best if he takes his sweet time examining/massaging/assessing you. Helps everyone relax, and delayed gratification always makes things hotter.

4The Erotic Examination

Try some role-play to get the butt sex happening. Get onto a sturdy table (a bed works too) and lie on your back, bending your knees and grasping onto your ankles (if you do yoga, it's Happy Baby Pose). This open, vulnerable position lends itself to all kinds of scenarios: Spa visit with a masseuse who turns you on so much you beg for a happy ending? Alien abduction with requisite anal probe? Don't worry if your idea seems crazy or weird — it's fantasy, that's kind of the point. P.S. It works best if he takes his sweet time examining/massaging/assessing you. Helps everyone relax, and delayed gratification always makes things hotter.

Double Trouble

Double penetration, simultaneously being penetrated in front and back, generally requires two penises, their accompanying two men, and long tedious conversations about boundaries. But you can skip all that by switching out dude no. 2 with an agreeable dildo, either vibrating or not. Facing his feet, mount your partner, taking as long as you need to take him in from behind. Once everything seems good back there, slide your dildo/vibrator into your vaj and start rocking up and down. If you want to go for the trifecta, rub your clit at the same time and try not to die of sheer pleasure.


Jill Hamilton writes the blog In Bed With Married Women. Follow her onTwitter.

5Double Trouble

Double penetration, simultaneously being penetrated in front and back, generally requires two penises, their accompanying two men, and long tedious conversations about boundaries. But you can skip all that by switching out dude no. 2 with an agreeable dildo, either vibrating or not. Facing his feet, mount your partner, taking as long as you need to take him in from behind. Once everything seems good back there, slide your dildo/vibrator into your vaj and start rocking up and down. If you want to go for the trifecta, rub your clit at the same time and try not to die of sheer pleasure.


Jill Hamilton writes the blog In Bed With Married Women. Follow her onTwitter.

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