Should your first trip together as a couple be a sexcation?

The answer to the question—should your first trip together as a couple be a sexcation?—is not complicated. While it’s not wrong to assume that a sexcation is going to involve a whole nasty business, look at the bigger picture for a second. It will not only solidify your trust in your partner and build emotional and sexual intimacy but also allow you to spend some undivided time with them. Sounds ideal, doesn’t it?

Read on to understand why the first trip with your partner should be a sexcation.

It can strengthen your connection

A sexcation will be all about sex, sex, and more sex. But you have to consider how getting intimate without any disturbances, cut off from all the chaos of your daily lives, will help you connect with your partner more deeply. Think of all the cuddles and pillow talk about the little things that help you get to know each other better. A sexcation, especially if it’s your first trip together, can help you strengthen your physical as well as emotional intimacy. 

Broaden your sexual boundaries

Getting physical and chasing orgasms is not the objective of this trip, especially, if you’re a new couple. It’s about building on your sexual rhythm and trying out new techniques, positions, and living out your fantasies. Go slow. Sometimes, engage in sensual teasing to stimulate each other, without going all the way, just to get to know your partner’s body and their pleasure points better. Having sex and climaxing is the easiest thing; the fun lies in the journey and the oxytocin high that follows.

Nothing to disturb your orgasms

Orgasms might not be the goal of this trip but they will be a significant part of it. But the beauty of a sexcation is that you can enjoy your partner without any disturbances—no phones, no work, no fear of being overheard. Nothing else except you two having a raunchy session between the sheets and well, any other place in the room you choose (wink, wink!). It also means you will get to focus solely on your partner, and this kind of undivided attention can only do good things for your budding relationship. 

The anticipation will be as good as the destination

The anticipation of this sexcation will dial up the sexual tension to a whole new level. You’ll prepare together. Go lingerie shopping, make a sexy playlist or you could turn up the heat by sexting fantasies that you two want to play out on the sexcation. And when you are together, all the anticipation will act as a catalyst for pleasure.

You bring the benefits home

Unfortunately, the bliss of a sexcation can’t last forever. What will last are shared memories and the comfort and trust cemented between both of you. The plus points of a sexcation aren’t

limited for the days you are there—from knowing your partner’s body better to being more at ease around each other, the experience will only make your relationship stronger and the trip unforgettable.