5 Butt-Centric Sex Positions for Women Who Love Doggy-Style

Start by assuming the typical reverse cowgirl position, which has charms for everyone, but for an ass man, it's the shi..., well, let's just say it's good. Then, kink it up a little by letting him play with your back door with a (well-lubed!!!!!) finger or a thin curved vibrator. And, as long as you've gone this far, go for the trifecta by strapping a small wearable vibrator on your crotch. The triple stimulation will give you the most insane orgasm ever.

If you're in need of a quickie and can't (or don't want to) make it to the bedroom, bend over, sister, and present your buck-naked booty to your partner. This is an easily recognizable signal throughout the animal kingdom that, roughly translated, means, "Let's get busy." Then spread your legs, ass in the air, and brace yourself on a couch back, table, or counter. The element of surprise and the enticing curve of your back as you arch it make it an irresistible take on traditional doggy-style for both of you.

Sit him in a chair and give him a little strip tease, ending with your butt square in his eye-line. And if you feel like shaking it a little in his general direction, go ahead. Let him paw at it, kiss it, and tease him by rubbing it against his crotch but not quite letting him inside you until one or both or you can't take it anymore.

If you're looking to add spanking to your repertoire, getting into doggy-style stance is a good gateway position. Have him get going with some thrusts from behind, with him mixing in some slaps to your butt as you both please. There should probably be some playful begging involved too — figure out your dynamic for the day and go from there. Be smart with a safe word and all that, but if you're both into it, the pleasure/pain thing can be super intense for both of you. Don't forget to be loud.

If you're a beginner at full-on anal sex, a side spooning position is a (relatively) gentle way to give it a go. Lie on your side and let him play with your bum, rubbing, lubing it up and eventually sliding a finger in. Have him lube up your butt crack and rub the head of his penis between your cheeks and around your bum hole, before slipping the tip in. It's waaaaaaay better (and less likely to hurt) if he takes his time and gives you the space to relax into this one.

Jill Hamilton writes the blog In Bed With Married Women. Follow her on Twitter.