5 Sensual Sex Positions for Sex That Lasts Forever

The key to deliciously long-lasting sex is finding moves that feel good, but not so good you both lose it right away. To mitigate how good you feel (and look) to him when you're on top, shift your position by sliding one leg down between his legs. Instead of up-and-down thrusts, grind against him. Not only does this slow things down, but it's going to feel way better to you too.

Blow each other's minds by edging (getting super turned on, but pulling back before one of you orgasms). Listen to each other's breathing and switch positions whenever things get too intense. If he seems close to the point of no return, you can slow things down by looping your finger and thumb around the base of his scrotum (the word "scrotum" *shudder*) and tug gently. He can also pull out and squeeze the tip of his penis for 10 seconds, or you can both stay really still and just breathe until you get it together. Keeping in tune with him and on the verge of orgasm makes you that much more obsessed with each other.

Start in doggy-style, but don't stay that way because that's not going to last too long. With him still inside you so he doesn't slip out, gently lower yourself so you're flat on the bed. You can tilt your hips to control how deeply he goes. The extra-tricky angle will buy you both some more time.

Remember how hot good, old dry humping makeout sessions used to be? Recreate that desperate passion. Light some candles, put on sexy music, and kiss until your lips are almost sore, keeping your clothes on the whole time. Feeling his zipper-covered insistent bulge as he presses into your crotch will make you feel well desired. When neither of you can take it anymore, go ahead and bone away — viva being a grown-up!

Set up different stations around your house for a one-night only Lover's Lane.

Station 1: Blindfold him and feed him decadent treats.

Station 2: Lay him down on a blanket for a sexy massage. Rub up his thighs and around his penis, but don't go all in.

Station 3: Tell him you are going to touch him with your mouth only. Kiss your way up his inner arm, suck gently on his neck and earlobes, and lick your way up his thighs. Kiss him all over his penis and balls, and finish with a slow, firm lick up his shaft, a few tongue flicks the underside of his penis right under the head (the frenulum), then circle your tongue around the head. Kiss his mouth and tell him to meet you in the bedroom in three minutes.

Station 4: Get naked and prepared to be ravaged.

Jill Hamilton writes the blog In Bed With Married Women. Follow her on Twitter.