5 oral sex positions for more comfort and pleasure

These are mind-blowing! (pun intended)

13 November, 2023
5 oral sex positions for more comfort and pleasure

We know how daunting and raw oral sex can feel, not only to newbies in the world of giving and receiving sexual pleasure but also to people who have mastered getting naughty between the sheets. However, once you get into the groove, it is one of the most reliable ways to get to climax, or even reach a place close to it!

If you’re looking to introduce yourself to the world of oral sex or you’re looking to take your game to a whole new level, try out these various positions you can try. Send this to your partner and thank us later!  

Face sitting  

We get it, nothing about the phrase “sit on my face” sounds remotely comfortable. However, if done right, it can be extremely pleasurable. This position can be done regardless of whether the receiver has a penis or a vagina and they can either sit facing you so they have a glorious view of everything you’re doing or away from you to focus solely on the orgasmic feeling.  

If you’ve tried this numerous times and it hasn’t worked for you (it can get a bit suffocating if your partner isn’t sitting at the right angle), here’s a tweak you can do. Instead of straddling the face completely by sitting upright, the receiver should lean forward so that they are resting on their elbows. They will practically be on all fours. This does away with some of the discomfort usually associated with face sitting and the receiver can move backwards and forwards, taking their pleasure into their own hands. 

Sideways 69  

While 69 is a classic oral sex position it can sometimes, also feel daunting. You can make this position so much more relaxing by turning sideways. This way you get access to the same mutual stimulation but it’s just easier and more comfortable for everyone involved. You start by lying on your side, facing your partner’s sexy parts. Have them do the same. Then you can wrap your leg around their body and start steaming up the room!

Heir to the throne   

If you are open to playing with the power dynamics in your relationship, this position has the power to set off fireworks in your head (and in your naughty bits). The receiving partner is seated at the edge of the bed while the giver kneels on the floor and works their magic. The beauty of this position is that you can spice it up by changing locations. Think—couch, kitchen counter, table. The sky is the limit.  

Doggy style   

A classic method to perform next-level oral is doggy style. A classic position in the sex universe, it puts the giver in full and complete control. If you’re into some steaming dom-sub play, this is it for you. Not to mention, for all those people who are into anal this position offers a brilliant segue!

The Kivin method   

If you haven’t heard of the Kivin Method, you’ve been missing out. For all my fellow vagina owners, be prepared to have your mind (and other parts) blown. Basically, the receiver (aka people with a vulva) lies down and the giver comes in from the side and applies pressure on the receiver's clit. The method is simple—the giver places an index finger and thumb on either side of the sensitive nub to steady it. Then, instead of licking up and down, they will go side to side (right across the clit). This will help the receiver reach an orgasmic paradise! 

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