Ice cream and foreplay are the summer duo you didn’t know you needed

The season of sweat and sunshine is here, and it’s time to turn up the heat—literally. While most people think of ice cream cones, popsicles, and frozen cocktails as poolside treats, these summer staples can double as playful, seductive tools in the bedroom. Think cool drips on warm skin, sweet licks on sensitive spots, and the teasing thrill of temperature play.

Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just looking to spice things up, here’s how to turn your summer cravings into a delicious part of your bedroom repertoire.

Why these summer treats work like a charm 

Sensuality is about more than just touch—it’s about all the senses. Taste, temperature, texture, scent, and visual appeal all play a part in arousal. That’s why bringing food into your sex life can see you and your partner discover new aspects of intimacy and pleasure.

Frozen treats like ice cream and popsicles are particularly exciting because they introduce temperature play—the erotic thrill of contrasting sensations. The coolness against hot skin or sensitive zones heightens awareness, drawing your partner’s focus to every lick, kiss, and touch. Add to that the eroticism of seeing your partner enjoy something sweet and indulgent, and you’ve got the recipe for some seriously heated foreplay.

Ice cream in your foreplay

A scoop of ice cream isn’t just for sundaes. Here’s how you can creatively use it in the bedroom.

Gently spoon or drip melted ice cream along your partner’s neck, chest, or thighs. Trace the melting path with your tongue, licking up the sweetness as it glides over their skin. The cold and warm combination is a sure-shot way to getting goosebumps. You could also take a lick of their favourite flavour and then start to kiss them slowly, letting them taste it on your lips and tongue. Take things up a notch by switching between kisses and teasing bites that will leave them wanting more. If you’re the adventurous type, place a small scoop on an erogenous zone (nipples, inner thighs, or the lower back) and gently suck or lick it off.

Popsicles as a sexy, icy way to tease 

Popsicles are phallic by design, and they offer so many playful possibilities. Slowly sucking on a popsicle in front of your partner can be incredibly erotic, giving them a visual preview of your oral talents. Make eye contact, take your time, and let the anticipation build. You or your partner could also run the popsicle along each other's lips, earlobes, collarbones, or inner wrists.

Giving oral sex a cool twist with these summer treats 

Adding frozen treats to oral sex, which is already an intimate and intensely sensual act, can work like a charm in amplifying the sensations. You could take a sip of cold water or suck briefly on ice before going down on your partner. You could also glaze your lips with a little melted ice cream or a popsicle before oral play. It’s a small touch, but it adds a sensual twist to the usual rhythm. If you want to go beyond popsicles and ice cream, try lightly running an ice cube over sensitive areas, alternating with the warmth of your tongue.

So next time the temperature rises, don’t just reach for the fan or air conditioner remote—reach for that tub of ice cream or get yourself a juicy popsicle, and see where your imagination (and your partner’s body) takes you. Pleasure, after all, is the sweetest summer treat.

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