Are you ready to take the pegging plunge?
Are you ready to take the pegging plunge?
Have him get into a modified doggie with his face and arms down on the bed. He is very vulnerable and exposed in a way guys aren't usually, so be gentle with the poor guy. Talk to him, telling you what you're doing and always keeping a reassuring hand on him. Go slowly, letting him guide how deeply you go. He will relax into it but it will take some time. This is your chance to show someone else everything you've ever liked about being penetrated, so think about what you've loved and do that.
Have him get into a modified doggie with his face and arms down on the bed. He is very vulnerable and exposed in a way guys aren't usually, so be gentle with the poor guy. Talk to him, telling you what you're doing and always keeping a reassuring hand on him. Go slowly, letting him guide how deeply you go. He will relax into it but it will take some time. This is your chance to show someone else everything you've ever liked about being penetrated, so think about what you've loved and do that.
Sometimes men go soft when they're penetrated—not because they are not enjoying the hell out of it but because, biology. Others get super hard. Flip him over on his back to see how you're affecting him. Either you or he can stroke him along to your thrusts. This (like a lot of pegging positions) won't do a lot for you physically, but (also like a lot of pegging) may be a huge psychological turn on. Take advantage of it by finding a vibe you can use, during, so you can both completely lose it together.
Sometimes men go soft when they're penetrated—not because they are not enjoying the hell out of it but because, biology. Others get super hard. Flip him over on his back to see how you're affecting him. Either you or he can stroke him along to your thrusts. This (like a lot of pegging positions) won't do a lot for you physically, but (also like a lot of pegging) may be a huge psychological turn on. Take advantage of it by finding a vibe you can use, during, so you can both completely lose it together.
If you're feeling extra bossy, pop some comfy pillows on a desk or table, bend him over it and tell him to hold on tight. You might need to bind his wrist to make your point. You'll be entering him standing from behind, hiking a leg up on the table for leverage and also just to feel like a bad-ass. But before you go all in, toy with him a little first. Touch him, kiss him, play with him, then leave the room for a moment and let him wonder. Don't let him have you until he's begging.
If you're feeling extra bossy, pop some comfy pillows on a desk or table, bend him over it and tell him to hold on tight. You might need to bind his wrist to make your point. You'll be entering him standing from behind, hiking a leg up on the table for leverage and also just to feel like a bad-ass. But before you go all in, toy with him a little first. Touch him, kiss him, play with him, then leave the room for a moment and let him wonder. Don't let him have you until he's begging.
For a very primal vibe, have him lie flat on his belly, with his arms over his head. Squat over him and go to town. You'll be on tiptoe, bracing your hands on the ground or his back. Give him a little swat every once in awhile to remind him exactly what's going down. A rare man can come with anal stimulation alone, but most men won't, so when he's ready finish him off by turning him over. And, yes, he is so in charge of finishing you next time.
For a very primal vibe, have him lie flat on his belly, with his arms over his head. Squat over him and go to town. You'll be on tiptoe, bracing your hands on the ground or his back. Give him a little swat every once in awhile to remind him exactly what's going down. A rare man can come with anal stimulation alone, but most men won't, so when he's ready finish him off by turning him over. And, yes, he is so in charge of finishing you next time.
Sit on the edge of the bed, legs spread wide and lube up your silicone boner, letting him watch. Have him back up until he's sitting on your lap. He can control how deep he goes here and you can also blow his mind with a reach-around. If you sit on a nice buzzy vibe at the same time, you will both be moaning in about 2 seconds.
Sit on the edge of the bed, legs spread wide and lube up your silicone boner, letting him watch. Have him back up until he's sitting on your lap. He can control how deep he goes here and you can also blow his mind with a reach-around. If you sit on a nice buzzy vibe at the same time, you will both be moaning in about 2 seconds.