Dating red flag or hopeless romantic? Here's what your matcha order says about your dating life

Some people read horoscopes. Others rely on Instagram for stalking their crush’s every move or decoding cryptic Stories. I, personally, enjoy judging people based on their matcha order. Is it childish? Maybe. But one's go-to green drink order says way more about their dating style than you think.

For instance, a frappuccino lover is a serial flirt—yes, they treat it like a sport with no regret. Know someone who enjoys a flavoured matcha drink? They love the thrill and drama, which is why they always fall fast and hard. You can spot a chronic ghoster, a soft girl in a situationship, or even a walking red flag that your friends warned you about—all from their drink order. Even if they don’t drink matcha. Want to know how? Keep reading.

Here it is: the completely unscientific, emotionally accurate guide to your love life based on your matcha order.

Iced matcha with oat milk that is “just a little sweet”: Stuck in a permanent talking stage with someone who “doesn’t believe in labels”

Aesthetics are your love language. You're the kind of person who sends people playlists with titles like “For when the moon is in Pisces.” You’re emotionally articulate, but you always end up dating people who respond to vulnerability with a confused “Huh?” In your mind, strong feelings must mean fate—meanwhile, they’re still using pet names for three other people. It's not delusion; it's hope. But even hope gets tired when it's the only one doing the texting.

Hot matcha with almond milk and zero sweetener: You’ve deleted all the dating apps, but you still check your DM requests

You’re in your self-respect era. Or at least trying to be. You write in your journal more than you talk to actual people. You say no to dates that start after 10 PM. You meditate through rejection. But sometimes, when no one’s looking, you still scroll through old chats to remind yourself how much effort you used to give. Your standards are higher than your screen time, and that’s admirable. But don’t confuse being alone with being above it all. You deserve softness, too.

Matcha frappuccino with whipped cream: You flirt for sport and regret nothing

You are a walking rom-com montage. You kiss on first dates. You text back with GIFs. You believe in love at first sight and also in blocking people for being bad kissers. You attract chaos and convince yourself it’s chemistry. Your friends are exhausted but entertained. You might overshare, overcommit, and overthink—but no one ever forgets you. And let’s be honest, neither do your exes.

Ceremonial-grade matcha that you whisked yourself at home: You are either extremely single or engaged to someone who composts

You do not tolerate emotional immaturity. You will not laugh at bad jokes to feel less alone. You read attachment theory for fun. You want love that feels like a well-made dinner — thoughtful, nourishing, and planned at least 48 hours in advance. You’re the type to say “I’m not dating right now” and mean it. People are intimidated by your clarity. But sometimes, you’re also just really tired of explaining why “just vibing” isn’t a relationship model.

Instant matcha sachets that include milk powder: You treat dating like rewatching your comfort show for the fifth time

You believe in emotional safety. You date people who text you when they reach home. You say sorry too easily and forgive too often. You’ve definitely convinced yourself someone was “just busy” when they were actually just bad at texting. You don’t like games. You like replies. Your softness is a gift but don’t lose yourself in the process of being easy to love.

Matcha mixed with lemonade, lavender, or some other chaos combo: You fall in love too fast and choose people who live in different cities

You love excitement. You chase novelty. You once matched with someone because their bio said something about 2000s indie bands. You don’t date boring people. You date people who are complicated and poetic and have at least one ghosted ex crying into a scarf somewhere. You don’t fear heartbreak. You romanticise it. Your dating life is a playlist of confusing voice notes and texts sent at 3 AM that you’ll never unsend. But hey, at least you’re never bored.

Not a matcha lover and not afraid to say it: You are emotionally secure and probably already in a stable relationship

You are the anomaly. The grounded one. The person who knows what they want and doesn’t pretend to like matcha just to seem cool. You believe in showing up, being direct, and ordering coffee like a normal person. You probably have a partner who respects your boundaries and a morning routine that doesn’t involve spiraling. We envy you. But also, we need you. You’re the friend we all call when we accidentally text our ex.

 

Maybe it’s not about the matcha at all. Maybe it’s about how we crave. How we choose. How we want to be seen. Some people order the same drink every day hoping for something different. Some keep switching it up, never finishing a full cup. And some just want something that tastes like home.

Your drink says more than you think. So go ahead and order what you love. Just remember to text them back. Or don’t.
That says something too.

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