From flirty cocktails to cosy coffee dates, all the 'It girl' spots you need on your radar

A girls’ day out is never just a girls’ day out. It’s a three-hour catch-up that somehow includes life updates, outfit compliments, at least one chaotic story, and 47 photos that may or may not make it to Instagram. Naturally, the location matters. You need good drinks, flattering lighting, a little bit of atmosphere, and a menu that supports both gossip and “let’s order one more thing”. Whether you’re in the mood for flirty cocktails, soft-girl coffee dates, or a spot that feels made for your next photo dump, finding the right spot means everything. And we're here to help.

From Mumbai’s buzzy hotspot to New York's polished cafes and London’s effortlessly cool corners, there are the destinations setting the tone for every stylish sip and gossip session.

Mumbai

Fielia

When the dress code is “hot, but effortless”, Fielia delivers every single time. Sophisticated without trying too hard, this Mumbai favourite is where elevated cocktails meet fashion-forward energy. Think luxe interiors, polished pours, and the perfect excuse to order “just one more” while you debrief your entire week. Whether it’s a spontaneous Friday night, a birthday pre-game, or simply one of those evenings where the outfits deserve to be seen, Fielia creates the kind of atmosphere where glamour feels natural. With its chic crowd, statement setting, and effortlessly upscale vibe, it’s where girls go when the night needs to feel a little extra special.

Blondie

Playful, stylish, and made for the girls who love a little drama with their drinks, Blondie is the spot for spontaneous nights that somehow turn iconic. From aesthetic corners to cocktails that practically demand a Boomerang, it’s giving girls’ night out done right. Bold, flirty, and designed for the kind of evenings where plans start casually but end with unforgettable stories, Blondie is perfect for dressing up, showing up, and fully embracing your main character mood. It balances fun and fashion in a way that feels fresh, social, and impossible not to love.

Ahmedabad

The Gourmet Lab

For slower mornings, meaningful conversations, and coffee that feels like self-care, The Gourmet Lab is a standout. It’s cosy yet chic, making it the kind of place where one cappuccino easily turns into hours of conversation. There’s an easy warmth here that feels comforting without losing its sense of style, making it ideal for everything from journaling sessions to long-overdue bestie catch-ups. It’s proof that cool doesn’t always have to be loud. Sometimes, it’s soft lighting, good coffee, and a space that simply feels right.

Bengaluru

Lupa

Lupa is for the girls who want their coffee dates with a side of sophistication. With stylish interiors, effortlessly cool energy, and a menu that understands indulgence, it’s basically brunch and bestie therapy rolled into one. It feels polished yet inviting, creating the perfect setting for catch-ups that somehow include life updates, outfit compliments, and at least one perfectly plated order. Whether it’s your first visit or your weekly ritual, Lupa brings elegance to even the simplest plans.

Soka

Minimal yet memorable, Soka is where aesthetic meets authenticity. It’s understated in the best way possible, offering the kind of curated calm that makes every coffee date feel just a little more cinematic. Thoughtfully designed and effortlessly serene, it’s for those who appreciate quiet luxury over loud trends. Whether you’re deep in conversation or simply enjoying your own company, Soka has a way of making every little moment feel beautifully intentional.

New York 

Swan Room

If old-school glamour and downtown cool had a very chic baby, it would be Swan Room. Perfect for dressed-up evenings and celebratory drinks, the space feels effortlessly cinematic: moody, elegant, and just playful enough. The food leans towards elevated comfort. Bar snacks like marinated olives, mixed nuts, and crisp potato chips pair perfectly with cocktails, while the wood-fired oysters with spicy ’nduja butter and lemon are rich, smoky, and absolutely worth ordering. For dessert, the tiramisu is light and espresso-forward, while the cheese plate, featuring fourme d’ambert, Cabot clothbound cheddar, and brebirousse d’argental, feels especially indulgent alongside one last drink.

Texas

Black Fox Coffee, Austin 

Black Fox Coffee brings its signature New York cool to Austin with expertly made coffee, buttery French-style pastries, and standout bites like the everything croissant with cream cheese from Swedish Hill. The Austin-exclusive Editions Program, featuring rare pour-over coffees brewed to order, makes the experience feel especially elevated for serious coffee lovers. Stylish yet approachable, it’s the kind of café that’s perfect for slow mornings, solo work sessions, or catching up over really good coffee and pastries.

London

Miko Mei Fair

Charming, polished, and exactly the kind of place you stumble upon and immediately gatekeep, Miko Mei Fair is London’s answer to the perfect coffee date. Elegant without being intimidating, it’s ideal for long conversations and even longer photo dumps. There’s a refined ease to it that feels distinctly London, stylish, understated, and naturally cool. It’s the kind of place where every detail, from the ambience to the aesthetic, feels curated for girls who appreciate beauty in the little things.

Singapore

Merci Marcel 

For the girls who want their coffee dates to feel like a mini European escape, Merci Marcel is the spot. Whether you’re catching up over brunch, sipping on something sparkly, or simply pretending you’re in the South of France for the afternoon, Merci Marcel serves soft-girl elegance with every visit. Breezy, beautiful, and effortlessly transportive, it’s the kind of place that makes an ordinary brunch feel indulgent. Every visit feels like a tiny lifestyle upgrade, blending charm, style, and just the right amount of escapism.

Whether your ideal outing involves espresso and emotional support or cocktails and a little chaos, these spots prove that the right setting can turn any plan into an occasion. So call your bestie, pick your outfit, and save this list, because the next iconic girls’ day out deserves nothing less. After all, sometimes it’s not just about where you’re going, it’s about finding the kind of place that matches the mood, the moment, and the version of you that came to be seen.

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