Nipplegasms are legit—here's how to orgasm with your boobs

The thing is, when you’re talking to someone, there is no way to tell if they will be good in bed. Sure, you can feel the chemistry but believe me, it can be deceptive. You may have had several good, ovary-exploding kisses but as soon as your clothes come off, they behave like they just got an out-of-syllabus question. Many people who are not vulva owners fail to understand that penetrative sex isn’t enough to make you orgasm and that boobs are not for being sucked on like they want to vacuum our very souls through our nipples. Sorry to break it to some people out there—our boobs are not super space-saver vacuum bags and need to be handled with more skill than you use to sharpen a pencil. Boobs are so magnificent that we can actually orgasm through them.

It is scientifically proven that nipples have sensitive nerve endings (varies from person to person) which on stimulation activate the same spots in your brain as genital stimulation does. Nipplegasms are real and need to be more heard of. 

Kisses? They are common. They are everywhere—in shows, in movies, and in public parks that are not covered in your OTT subscription. It takes a little more knowledge to know how to pleasure a woman. Nipplegasms? Even more of a niche subject! 

If you’re someone who gets wet like an overflowing pool with breast play, you’d be glad to take it up a notch to give you big Os while you’re at it. 

Wondering where to start? Here’s how you can reach peak pleasure with boobie stimulation! 

Start with self-pleasure 

Remember that everyone experiences boob orgasms differently and not everyone has the same level of nipple sensitivity. Thus, to enhance pleasure in partnered sexual activity, you need to first know and understand your body in and out. You need to know exactly how every touch feels, where your erogenous spots are and what kind of rhythm works best. Start by making it a safe, comfortable space before you start exploring. Let your mind be clear from the daily stressors and focus just on exploring various touches on your body.

Build anticipation

Your partner must feel your all over your body, including your breasts but leave out the nipples. A little teasing will put you in arousal mode even before your nips are touched. The anticipation will make the area more sensitive and when finallyyyy they get their hands on your N-spot, you’re all ready to go!

Use various methods of nipple stimulation 

If you’re having partnered sex, ask your boo to roll their tongue around your nipples in circles, which will have them erect. After that, they can suck on them, for more arousal. They can roll it between their index finger and thumb for more stimulation. You can also go for temperature play to elevate the sensations for a heightened possibility of nipplegasms! 

Focus on the sensations

Now we know clitoral orgasms require you to focus harder than you ever did in math class. Make that focus x3 when we’re talking about nipplegasms! You have to relax completely and forget about everything else. Simply follow your partner’s touch on your body and how the sensations travel. Take deep breaths when it feels amazing. Also, in your mind, imagine your partner touching your vajayjay. It’s a scientifically proven fact that if we imagine genital stimulation, it actually activates the areas of our brain that work with real play. This will help you experience an orgasm that originates in your nipples but travels through your entire body in waves.

Do Kegels while your nipples are being stimulated 

This will ensure your vagina is aligned with the pleasure you are feeling on the rest of your body. It will further enhance the sensations you are picturing in your head. It will improve your chances of having a nipplegasm. 

Use sex toys

If you’ve never tried a sex toy that mimics the mouth, you’re majorly missing out. A sex toy offers sensations that a human cannot, unless they have a vibrating mouth, which honestly seems a bit too farfetched. Invest in a suction sex toy that can be like a cherry on the cake of your nipple arousal. Soon, you will feel an orgasm approaching and you will come like never before!