Here are five sexolutions I am setting for 2025!

As we roll into 2025, I’m making some fresh resolutions—not just for my career, fitness, or finances, but for my sex life too. We all make promises to eat healthier or finally start that workout routine, so why not give our sexual well-being the attention it deserves? After all, sex is a crucial part of self-care—it boosts our mood, connects us with ourselves and our partners, and let's face it, is just plain fun!

So this year, I’m committing to some bold, exciting, and absolutely doable sexolutions that will not only elevate my intimate experiences but also add a whole lot of joy and spice to my life. Whether you're coupled up, exploring the single life, or just looking for more pleasure, there’s no better time than now to set some intentions that focus on fun, exploration, and, well, getting a little hotter.

So here’s what I’m doing in 2025 to make my sex life sizzle!

Explore new fantasies

After reading Want by Gillian Anderson, where she collected and explored fantasies from women all around the world, I couldn’t help but realise how much I relate to so many of them. It got me thinking about the wide range of fantasies out there, and I’ve definitely got a few in mind that I’d love to try in 2025. After all, fantasies are a natural part of being human—who hasn’t had one at some point? My sexy time is about to get a whole lot hotter!

Give sex a try

Yes, I am a single virgin who happens to talk about sex and relationships way more than I probably should. But here’s the thing: 2025 is the year I’m finally going to stop talking and start doing. And by "doing," I mean giving sex a try. 

It’s not about rushing or fitting into anyone’s timeline—it’s about exploring, embracing, and actually experiencing all the hype around it. The pressure to have the “perfect” first time is overrated anyway. So this year, I’m ditching the nerves and embracing the journey. Whether it's with someone special or just getting comfortable with my own sensuality, I’m ready to explore what makes me tick.

Experiment more with foreplay 

In 2025, it’s time to make foreplay a priority. Forget rushing straight to the main event—this year is all about savouring the journey. Think body massages, sensual oils, and exploring every inch of your partner (or yourself) with intention. I plan on experimenting with different types of kisses—slow and intense or light and playful—whatever feels right in the moment. Paying attention to what my body craves will be key, and it’s about taking the time to understand what excites me.

Sext more often 

I’ve dabbled in sexting before, but let’s be honest, I’ve never fully committed. Sure, I’ve sent the occasional flirty text or playful emoji, but when it came to really getting into it, I always ended up feeling a little awkward. Maybe it was the fear of being too bold, or maybe I just wasn’t ready to step outside my comfort zone. But, hey, 2025 is about embracing new experiences, and this year, I’m going all out.

I’m determined to sext more often, to let go of the nerves and really explore what it feels like to send those spicy, intimate messages that build excitement and anticipation. I can already tell how a few well-timed texts could add a whole new layer of intimacy and connection. Whether it's teasing through the day or ramping things up later on, I’m ready to push past the awkwardness and dive in.

More self-pleasure, less self-deprecating jokes

Okay, let's be real—how many of us really dedicate enough time to self-pleasure? This year, I’m making it a top priority. It's not just about a quick, “get it done” moment, but about taking the time to explore. Whether it’s with my hands or new toys, I’m all about discovering what feels good, and more importantly, figuring out what feels amazing.

2025 is the year I’m committing to exploring new erogenous zones, trying different techniques, and—yes—really listening to my body. After all, the more I understand what turns me on, the more confident I’ll be in sharing it with a partner. Plus, there’s something undeniably empowering about taking the time to explore my own pleasure and truly connect with myself.

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