How to be a great third wheel without making things awkward

Being the third wheel in a couple can be an awkward position, but it doesn't have to be this way. It can be fun and enjoyable not just for you, but for all those involved. The important thing is knowing how to navigate this dynamic smoothly in a way that doesn’t make you feel left out, nor does it make them feel uncomfortable. Instead of thinking that you’re an unwanted addition, change your mindset and believe that you enhance the overall experience.

Here are some ways on how to be a great third wheel without making things awkward.

Stay positive

Instead of feeling like an outsider or burden, step into this new role with positivity and confidence. The couple inviting you to join them is a sign that they value your company and want you to spend time with them. 

Give them their space

One of the biggest mistakes a third wheel can make is crossing boundaries when the couple is having a moment. If they’re holding hands, sharing an inside joke, or speaking in private, give them the time and space to enjoy by themselves. There is no need to intrude in a situation that doesn’t require you. A good third wheel knows when to step in and when to step back. Be adaptable and independent enough to step away for a little while. 

Contributing to the fun

Instead of being silent or feeling left out, take the initiative to add to the conversation in a way that makes everyone feel included. A way to do so is by asking open-ended questions, share stories, and bring up interesting topics that all three of you can discuss. Add to that, enhance the experience by lighting up the mood, and planning fun activities. Your presence will be welcomed and appreciated if you can make people laugh and feel good about themselves. 

Don’t favour one partner over the other

If you're close friends with one half of the couple, don’t make their partner feel like a third wheel in their own relationship. Avoid inside jokes that exclude the significant other or talking excessively about your friendship history. Instead, make an effort to include both parties equally.

Being a third wheel doesn’t have to be awkward or uncomfortable. In fact, when done right, it can be an enjoyable and fulfilling experience for everyone involved. By keeping a positive attitude, engaging with both individuals, and respecting their relationship, you can turn third-wheeling into a fun and natural part of your social life. So next time you find yourself third-wheeling, own it with confidence and make the most of the moment!

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