The hottest lesbian sex positions that will give you the best orgasms

There’s so much more to lesbian sex than what we think it might be (with porn playing an important role in giving us all the wrong ideas). It’s so much more than oral sex where you’re going down on each other, or you taking things up a notch by donning a strap-on or spending ample time just scissoring. If you go with an open mind, there’s every chance that you discover some lesbian sex positions that give you and your partner plenty of orgasms as well as see you get more intimate than before. 

But before we impart some practical knowledge for you to master, it’s important to get the theory etched in your mind. 

If you’re getting down and dirty with another person for the first time, it’s always good to familiarise yourself with what their genitals look like. In the case of a vulva, the clitoris has around 8,000 nerve endings (if you want to get on their nerves, get on this one), and knowing where this is located, is your ticket to giving them the big O. So it’s always good to read up on how to finger someone. Add to that, it’s also important to explore your body (before you explore theirs) and know what you like when it comes to masturbation and sex. Because if you don’t know what turns you on and what doesn’t, you’re not going to be able to let your partner know either. 

Talk things out—especially when it comes to finishing

When it comes to sex, people tend to focus all their energy on climaxing and not on the journey that leads them to it. In heterosexual sex, you know you’re done when the person with a penis climaxes. This obsession to ‘finish’ isn’t healthy and the lines are a bit blurry in a lesbian sexual encounter as you don’t know when things are ‘done’. Letting your partner know that you had a great time or didn’t cum is way better than faking an orgasm (which hurts you, in the long run, more than it hurts them.)  

And before you get down to it, remember to maintain sexual hygiene. And if you practice the tips mentioned here for sexual hygiene, there’s every chance that you’ll feel confident and good about yourself. 

The Slider

All you got to do is have your partner sit on your lap, take some lube on your lube on your fingers, and then go to town. Make a V-shape with your first and middle fingers and slide (in this case tease) them along either side of their clit and over the vulva. Watch them go over the edge with some strokes that are long, slow, and consistent. Remember, it’s all about finding the right rhythm. 

The Made to Order

This one’s all things hot as you have your partner sit on the kitchen counter, desk, or table with you being in the right position to do whatever the two of you want. It could be some fingering, some oral sex or even integrating a sex toy into the equation. As far as this position goes, nothing’s going to turn them on more than you wrapping your legs around them and pulling them closer. 

The Wedge

As the name suggests, you put a wedge—for example, a pillow under your back as you lie down. Doing so gives your partner a great angle to perform oral sex on you as well as easier access to your G-spot. You can also stimulate your partner by stimulating their clit with your mouth and their G-spot with your fingers making it a great position for a blended orgasm. 

Missionary

One partner’s on their back while the other lies down in between their partner’s legs. Both can use their fingers or sex toys to stimulate the clit and vulva. While the position might not give you ample room to move your hands, it is a very intimate one as the eye contact is intense along with you being able to kiss your partner right from start to end. 

The receiver kneels with their knees on either side of their partner’s face with the latter performing oral sex on them. It’s a position that’s all things awesome as the receiving partner controls the speed and intensity as they move their hips back and forth (along with both partners using their hands to massage their breasts and nipples, or their partners). You can make this position kinkier by tying their hands with a cloth, cuffs or rope as well as add blindfolds into the mix as well. 

69

Rather than taking turns, giving and getting at the same time is what makes this position so popular. The more pleasure you feel, the more intensely you pleasure your partner in response. Using lube over your fingers that glide over your partner’s clit with different movements and pressures—such as tapping and circling is sure to take them over the edge. 

Ballet Dancer

This is one of the easiest positions for oral sex. One partner stands straight up and leans against a wall while the other person kneels and performs oral sex on them. If you are one who is standing you can move your leg to the side to give the receiver more access and if you are the kneeling partner, you can use a vibrator on yourself while giving pleasure to your partner, allowing for a simultaneous orgasm. With equal access to the clitoris and G-spot, it’s another position that can give you a blended orgasm. 

Classic and reverse cowgirl

One person lies down while the other is seated on top of them. You can start by straddling them and moving followed by using your hips to grind together and stimulate your and your partner’s vulva. It’s great for the person on top as they get to control the speed, pressure and rhythm. The reverse cowgirl position is very much the same, except the partner on top faces away from their partner.

Doggystyle

For two people with vulvas, one person here kneels on all fours while the other stimulates their clitoris, penetrates their vagina or anus by using either their hands, mouth or a sex toy. You can use some pillows and props for better support as you lie down on all fours. And there’s no reason why you should try this out only in the bedroom as the kitchen counter or the chair makes for a great spot as well.