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8 Golden Rules For Keeping Your Booty Call Fun And Uncomplicated

How to have 'no-strings attached' sex without getting tangled up in a mess.

If you Google search the words 'booty call', one of the definitions you get is "A sexual rendezvous or invitation" (no, we are not kidding FYI). With today's dating culture becoming more and more casual, grey areas are now, almost, the norm. Many of us, who are single, tend to have that one person around who we kind-of hook up with when we are lonely or just bored, AKA our 'booty  call' person. 

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As convenient as a booty call sounds, things can sometimes get complicated, especially if one of the people involved happens to catch feelings. So, how do you manage to enjoy the fun of having a booty call without the repercussions it might entail? Don't worry, we got your back! Follow these eight golden rules to make sure that you can enjoy all the fun of a booty call without any of the mess.

1. Don't choose someone you have a history with. We are not saying it has to be a total stranger, but it's smarter to pick someone who is not deeply connected to your life, for obvious reasons.

2. Make sure you are both on the same page.

3. Don't cuddle, spend the night,  spend time together, or call each other just to chat. 

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4. Don't plan ahead, or make your plans revolve around them — 'cuz then it starts going into date/relationship territory, before you know it.

5. Throw your insecurities out of the window. If you are getting out of a bad relationship, your booty call is supposed to be a feel-good factor for you. Stop stressing about not looking your best and just embrace the fun of it!

6. Always be prepared. We are talking grooming, protection — the works.

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7. Don't get your ego involved. If the other person is busy or with someone else, it's perfectly fine. Remember, this is supposed to be convenient and easy for both people involved.

And lastly...

8. End it at the first sign of feelings from either side. Trust us, this can never lead to a good situation. 

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