For every girlfriend out there, here's your sign to start your boyfriend’s wardrobe makeover 

We all have our non-negotiables when it comes to relationships—loyalty, companionship, confidence, kindness, the whole checklist. But let’s be honest, for those of us who live and love fashion, dressing sense ranks way up there too. I’m not asking for a runway rival, but I do want to proudly walk into a room with you and think, “Wow, we look so good together!” And if style doesn’t come naturally to you, don’t worry—that’s what I’m here for.

Enter the very real phenomenon of the “girlfriend effect”: the glow-up that magically appears once a man starts dating a woman who cares about how he shows up. Consider this your official guide to upgrading his wardrobe—no ultimatums, just better outfits.

Next, a gentle but firm reminder: dress your age. There is nothing aspirational about rocking a hoodie with “Essentials” splashed across the chest, cargo pants, and Nike Dunks like you’re late for tuition. And let’s retire the all-black, head-to-toe uniform that makes you look like the backstage crew at a school play. Your wardrobe should mature as you do (even if it’s slow).

Now, let’s talk about my dream-boy dressing: invest in linens. Think Euro summer on a yacht. Ankle-length beige or white linen trousers and a crisp linen shirt in navy, sky blue, grey, pink, or butter yellow—half sleeve or full, your call. It’s effortless, elevated, and just so flattering.

Shoes matter more than men think. Lose the rubber slides. Retire the sporty school-day footwear and step into leather slides or chic thong slippers (Havaianas). And if you really want to win the fashion lottery, buy the damn loafers! A deep brown or classic black pair works for wedding season, brunch, and date nights alike.

Shorts? Go shorter. There’s no need for your knees to be fully covered—just promise me you’re not skipping leg day. Show a little ankle with chinos, play with fun socks, and for the love of style, coordinate them with your outfit. No-show socks are a little bit historical.

Accessories are not optional anymore. Rings, bracelets, a thin silver chain, even a tote bag—yes, a tote bag. Picture this: backwards cap, beige shorts, yellow Adidas Sambas and a tote on a coffee date. Chef’s kiss.

And sunglasses—go timeless. Tortoiseshell, brown, or even a cool blue tint if you’re bold. I love the oval Miu Miu-inspired shape, but choose frames that suit your face and work everywhere—from a wedding to our unplanned Sri Lanka holiday. Bonus if I can steal them occasionally.

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