Master the Sex-th Sense

TOUCH—It’s time to get your hands dirty...and we mean that in the best possible way.

Frisky Business
Dress yourself in a naughty mix of fabrics that will give him all the feels. Try a lace bra, silk robe and velvet undies. Then hop on top of your man and let him feel the smooth silk stroke his bare chest, and let the soft velvet graze his package while you straddle him. The scratchy lace of your bra can ignite both of your nipples. By the time you get to skin-on-skin, you’ll both be hot as hell.

Cold Sweats
Head downtown on your guy for a minute, treating him to the natural warmth of your mouth and tongue. Then change things up and give him a sensual shock. Suck on an ice lolly, then suck on his lolly. It’ll be cool (literally) for him to feel a brand-new temperature mid-action. Then have him return the favour. Isn’t that better than ice cream?

Soft...Then Hard
The touch, the feel of cotton is lovely, but so is a soft, smooth mini massager on your clitoris. The next time you’re in bed, bring along something vibrating, like a sex ring, or even a vibrating toothbrush or massager. Pulse the vibrating object against the hood of your clit during doggie—or very lightly against your guy’s testicles during a BJ. One thing that won’t be soft for long? Him.

What a Stud
Yes, your guy’s smoking, but we’re talking studded condoms, ladies. To up your internal tingles, swap out your standard protection, and try a studded (and ribbed) condom. Tonnes of tiny, raised dots provide extra texture and stimulation during sex. It’ll give new meaning to the term for her pleasure...

SIGHT—Guys are visual creatures—this you already know (oh, hi, multi-billion-dollar porn industry!). But why watch bad actors have fake sex when you can amp up the visuals in your own life and both get off?

Flash Photography
No man ever got a hard-on looking at a trail of artfully strewn rose petals. Replace the flowers with sexy polaroids of yourself in varying degrees of undress, and leave a trail
starting at his door. Where they lead him is your call, but make sure it’s a spot that’s comfortable to roll around in, because once he gets to the end of this treasure trail, things will quickly get X-rated.

Shower Show
Hop in the shower, start soaping up, then holler for your lovah to come into the loo. Pull back the shower curtain and give him a show—caressing your hair, breasts, hot spot
(if you have a clear shower curtain or glass shower door, even better). The sight of your wet-and-wild action should inspire him to strip, hop in, and getting wet will have a whole new meaning.

Optic Orgasms
Picture Ryan Gosling’s eight-pack. See, you’re already aroused! Gazing at a naughty visual is a shortcut to getting hot, so bust out eye-opening moves to get you both off: while riding him, lean way back to give him a full view of your sexy self (and increase the depth of penetration). Glance down at him entering you when he’s on top. If you’re used to hazy, eyes-closed sex, this’ll feel like Lasik surgery...for your vagina. 

SOUND—From kinky whispers to a secret sexy language, these tricks will boost ‘aural’ up with ‘oral’ in your sex-move hall of fame.

Mission Totally Possible
Create a secret couples code that translates to sexy times. Maybe ‘order me a dirty martini’ means let’s blow this joint...and then each other.

Sexting, Sexting, 1-2-3
Tap into the Voice Memo app on your iPhone, hit record, and tell him what you want to do to him later. Send it in a text message—he’ll be pleasantly surprised to hear your sexy voice purring naughty, naughty things. 

Good Vibrations
Make a playlist to match the beats you want to hit in bed. Start with sensual Miguel, then play up-tempo ‘S&M’ so you’re both motivated to go Bad Gal RiRi during oral.

Va-Va-Volume
Crank up the sound on your next hookup. Smack his *ss and bang the headboard to let him know you’re ready to get wild. Then entice his D with dirty talk. Tell him—loud and clear: ‘I love it when you [blank] my [blank]...’

TASTE—Get a taste of this! No, seriously. Use your tongue in bed in new ways—from sweet to spicy—that will leave him drooling.

Bone Appétit
Screw his stomach—the way to a man’s heart is through your boobs. Blindfold him, dash various sweet treats on your breasts, and lower them into his mouth. He guesses what’s on his tongue; you writhe with pleasure.

Sweet Spot
Secretly spread a tiny touch of lube—try a minty one for extra tingles—on your lady business. When he goes downtown, the delish flavour will keep him going down for longer. How very fresh of you.

Sour Power
Love playing with ice cubes but hate that your bed looks like Noah’s ark post-storm afterwards? Swap with frozen grapes instead. Pass one between your mouths during the main event, or pop a few in your mouth before a BJ. Lockjaw is a lot easier to deal with when there’s a tart, fruity taste involved.

Culinary Schooled
Christen your kitchen! Push him up against the open fridge for a mid-coitus cool-down, or bend over the counter for easy G-spot access. Then have a snack (post-sex pizza: mmm).

SCENT—Olfactory? Try olf*cktory. Researchers found that women rank a guy’s scent as their number one turn-on. Get a whiff of these tips...

Eau de Orgasm
Spray your sexiest perfume in the air over his work bag—the strategically placed scent is a stealth way of planting naughty thoughts of you in his head all day.

Secret-Weapon Smells
Upgrade your surfbort session with aphrodisiac bath oils. Lavender and pumpkin pie scents increase male arousal by up to 40 percent, according to the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago.

Sexy Memory Lane
Studies say that scents linked to positive memories turn women on like mad—especially familiar scents like barbeque, coffee, clean laundry, and sunblock. So do a load of
delicates...then jump his bones.

Phero-moan
Stop and smell the...sex sweat? Yes, researchers at Rice University found that the pheromones (natural chemicals that attract the opposite sex) emitted by a guy’s sex sweat can trigger an emotional response in a woman. So inhale deep, like in yoga, and namaste, baby!