Spice things up with your guy by stimulating these erogenous zones

Sex is so much more than penetration. But you probably already knew that. Holding your partner close, touching them where they are turned on the most, and feeling their body, when done well, helps build sexual intimacy and takes you one step closer to the big Os. Besides the genitals, there are various erogenous zones, which when stimulated, turns on the heat under the sheets and how. 

While we are quite familiar with the many erogenous zones for women, it’s time to find the right (sweet) spots for men.

The scalp

Who doesn't like their head being stroked. The scalp is full of nerve endings and a good head massage works wonders as a stimulation. Men enjoy the feeling of fingernails gently running across the scalp or their hair tugging. It not only relaxes them but prepares them for what’s coming next. 

Mouth and lips

When you start with the first base, it’s important to do things good and right. A kiss at the right time and in the right place is all that you and your partner need to set the mood and arouse each other. Go on to bite, kiss, nibble, or suck on his lips to arouse them and let the hot sesh begin! 

Neck

There’s a reason why neck is the most favoured body part for giving and getting hickeys. While the neck is a very sensitive area, the nape is one of the most erogenous zones in the human body. Be it some light breathing on the neck, biting, kissing, or nibbling, every action will ensure your intentions are made pretty clear to your partner in absolutely no time. 

Ears

Don’t just whisper to him what you’re going to do, raise the heat by nibbling on their earlobe to set their pulse racing. You can also slowly kiss the patch of skin right behind his ears.

The inner thigh

This is a super sensitive area of the body, and just a tongue flick is enough to have them quiver with excitement. Start by running your fingers on his thighs, slowly moving your way up to his groin area and kissing him at the same time. Trust us, you won’t be able to handle the heat after this.

Feet

Foot fetish or no foot fetish, this body part is extremely sensitive and erotic. You can set the mood with a nice foot rub or massage before you get down and dirty. And if you know the right pressure points to stimulate in the feet, you’ve just hit the jackpot. Some of the spots you could try out are the toes (try sucking them, if you’re into that), the area in between the toes, the ankle, and the heel. Run your fingers, kiss or even lick them in these areas to spice things up. 

The perineum

The perineum is the super sensitive skin that runs underneath the scrotum all the way to the anus. It’s a tiny little spot that can be extremely sensitive because of the presence of nerve endings as well as the pelvic floor muscles. Applying gentle pressure or using light circular motions with your fingers can be extremely arousing.

The penis

And now's the pretty obvious one. While it might not have as many nerve endings as compared to a woman’s clitoris, the head of the penis has approximately 4,000 nerve endings which is more than enough to do the job (no pun intended). You can stroke it, massage it or caress it, the options are limitless. Either use your hands, your mouth or even mix it up according to what your partner loves best.